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What is expressing love all about?

What is expressing love all about? To express means to indicate by gesture or behavior that you love him or her, it is all about demonstrating love to your spouse.

Telling your spouse you love him or her, is not enough to show your. If you really love him or her, your action your action must indicate so.

Why should I express love to my husband?

Your husband needs to know that you love him, and he will only know it when you express it. All human have a need to be loved and your hubby is no exception. Besides, on the day that you got married, you made a promise before God, and all present to, to love, honor and cherish your husband, When you express love to your husband you are keeping your promise.

Ways to express love to your spouse.

There are three major ways in which you can express love to your spouse.

The Agape way

The Eros way

The Phileo way.

The Agape way.

This is deriving form the Agape kind of love. The Agape love is the God kind of love or Devine love. It is sacrificial and it is unconditional. No one ever merit or deserves this kind of love.

This is the love God has for his children. And send his son (Jesus) to die for our sins. If God love us unconditionally, we should also love our spouse unconditionally.

Expressing love to your spouse the Agape way means that you give him or her unconditional love and acceptance. Good or bad, your love is not affected by what he does or does not do.

The Eros way.

This is deriving from the Eros kind of love, Eros is derive from the word Erotic which connotes sex. Therefore, the Eros love is also called sexual love. It’s base on physical attraction and is the kind of love that exists between husband and wife.

It’s beautiful when confined to the marriage bed but it can’t be the foundation of a great and strong marriage. A marriage built on sex or physical attraction can’t stand the challenges of life.

Expressing love to your spouse the Eros way means that you enjoy and not endure sex.

When a woman enjoys sex, her husband is sure of her love and so he feels loved. However, when she endures it only out of a sense of duty, her husband is unsure of her love and as a result does not feel loved.

A man’s masculinity is tied to his sexuality. Giving pleasure to the woman he loves during sex is what make a man feel like a man. Therefore, when a woman enjoys her husbands love making, she’s building up his mascunity. A woman can show her husband she enjoys sex by initiating it sometimes.

The Phileo way.

This is derived from the phileo kind of love. The phileo love is also called friendship or brotherly love.

It’s the warm love and affection that we have for good friends and family members.

Non-sexual touch can be found in the phileo kind of love. This kind of love will help you both to enjoy each other’s company.

Expressing love in the phileo way means that you becomes his or her best friend and step into his or her world. Be interested in his intrest, be friendly with his friend. Learn about his work so you can discuss it with him.

Any spouse who desires a great marriage must express love in these three ways.

A marriage that has the Agape, Eros, and Phileo will stand the test of time because three ford cords is not quickly broken.